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Submitted by soon to be stepmom on Mon, 04/21/2014 - 1:36pm

So my soon to be SS who is 8 he acts out and is both hurtful physically and verbally to others as well as myself, BF and BM. He recently got himself expelled form catholic school. Punishment nothing has helped. He has no fear of punishment or consequences, he has no remorse or empathy. I feel I am beginning to resent him (SS). How do i get over this feeling or attempt to control it. I have no children of my own and he leaves his BF in tears where he tells me he is not sure if he wants children or not.

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Submitted by soon to be stepmom on Mon, 04/21/2014 - 1:45pm

Good to hear that he turned out well, We brought him to counseling recently he was diagnosed with Severe ADHD, he started a new school today, Public school - So nervous about it. Its exhausting, did you find that parents didn't want there child to play with your DS when he was younger. Or was he a loner? I feel my SS is a loner he has no social skills or need to play with Children. He is always Miserable for absolutely no reason.

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Submitted by soon to be stepmom on Tue, 04/22/2014 - 8:12am

I was doing my fair share of research as well before we went to see a phychiatrist, I had all this paper work printed out on Aspergers and he dismissed it right away. I still think he truly has it - he has all the tendencies. Someone else was telling me about that TV was it helpful to you at all?

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Submitted by soon to be stepmom on Tue, 04/22/2014 - 8:15am

Did you have to go to multiple doctors to receive any diagnosis, i mean he met with SS for 20 Minutes and just ruled it out, said he makes eye contact he doesnt have it. He is super intelligent his school wanted to skip him 2 grades, everyday route is an issue with him (getting dressed, brushing teeth) and he has no remorse what so ever. He only expresses excited when coached. His BF & BM got a little upset when i approached them with the thought of it. What is my role here as a SM? I feel like im the only one concerned doing the research, I understand no parents wants to find out there is something wrong with there child, but in the grand scheme of things, at this point im hoping something is wrong and he isnt just like this.