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BM's Annual Mental Breakdown Continued Electronically.

Solidshadow7's picture

So summer is finally here and SS5 has arrived. The BM has gone insane on social media as typical, I really believe she may have suffered a psychotic break this time. I mean, I always feel like she's on the verge and I'm always kind of waiting for it to happen. Maybe this is finally it? Here are some choice details from her latest posts with no basis in reality:

1) DH has taken SS for the summer with the sole intention of leaving him in daycare around the clock. Apparently he also removes him from daycare occasionally with the sole intention of hiding SS from mom. SS is in daycare round the clock because DH doesn't actually want anything to do with SS but he is only taking him for the summer to try and prove that he is not the deadbeat that she knows he is.

As previously explained SS will not be in daycare this summer at all because last summer the BM went to his daycare every day to stare at him for 2 hours because she missed him sooooo much and we are trying to spare SS as much of this lunacy as we can. It's very sad that we cannot put SS in daycare for his own safety because his social skills are severely lacking since the BM keeps him isolated from everyone and his basic reading and math skills are delayed because BM racked up 54 absences from school (non compulsory) with him because she missed him so much and he needed her.

2) She really doesn't want SS around DH because now DH is supposedly cheating on me with a stripper and she doesn't want him using her son as a trophy to attract other women and doesn't want SS exposed to DH's whores. I am aware that DH is cheating on me but I allow it because I am a doormat. I also don't want SS around for the summer but am allowing DH to bully me into it also because I am a doormat

Do I even need to explain this one? The chances that DH is actually cheating on me are absolute ZERO, and since when is a child used to attract dates? Doesn't it typically drive them away? DH and I had a good laugh about this one.

3) The child's teachers, the daycare workers and the police in both counties have told her that it would be more appropriate for DH to have no visitation over the summer as the boy clearly needs his mother all the time. DH is a raging narcissist who only wants time with SS to control her and continue his abuse of her. Unfortunately she got a lousy judge who doesn't see it that way.

I don't think this bears explanation, but I wonder how the judge would feel about this? And about the fact that apparently BM is openly bragging about how she is harassing the police force in multiple counties about her custody issues?
This was followed by a bunch of random ravings about how shes going to take DH back to court and get his entire paycheck as child support. May I remind you the custody arrangement is very close to 50/50 and DH currently earns close to minimum wage, which she is having imputed to her because she has never been able to hold a job.

I continue to wait with baited breath for the nuclear explosion that is sure to occur when the BM finds out that she won't be visiting SS this summer. How sad for her.

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twoviewpoints's picture

I suppose she has her selected audience she's playing to on social media. Maybe it's gets her sympathy an lots of 'there there, you poor thang' 

She sounds like a total nut case with an extremely unhealthy attachment to the child. Even the 'best' of GUBM loving judges isn't going to go wth the lines of 'the child can not possibly survive without me 24/7' jive.

I'm surprised she hasn't tried to homeschool the child, you know, cause the kid needs her at his side round the clock. She's his mother, and a child needs his mother. 

I all seriousness, this poor child will likely need a ton of therapy to try and recover from his 'loving' mother when he gets older. 

Exjuliemccoy's picture

of her social media rants? 

Your SO should be collecting all of this toxic poo for future court proceedings.

thebrokenrecordmachine's picture

Sounds like my BM to an extent although she is off Social Media-although you may find her profile on the site luxy, where rich men want to spend time with a "lady", but wait BM is passed her prme, and if your into amazonian androgynous women with many fine lines and major hair problems- yeb she's your go to gal...
Unfortunately, without a rhyme or reason, they just dont stop. Seriously I have been dealing with psycho almost 10 years now, skids are considered "Adults" and the greed becomes increasingly more apparent.
At any rate, you will eventually build a block where BMs non-sense wont affect you. Unfortunately, for your SS it looks like he may have some issues to sort out as he gets older. I know ours did. Watch out for symptoms of alienation. It seems judges are not attune to this thing that happens amongst many divorced or broken families. Best of Luck. I wish I could say it gets better, they get crazier(BMS) but you will be able to handle it A LOT more.

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