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snoopyinoz's picture

Oh HELL no! I went out for a bit tonight, and I come home to find DH in a pissy mood and SD10 blubbering. I calmy ask what happened and lo and behold DH caught SD10 stealing change out of our room! I went about my business determined to stay out of it. Well DH tells SD10 point blank he wanted the truth right then. Her answer was a lie and DH called her on it. Her answer for that one? "but I'm so USED to lying" DH called bullshit on that one. And told her "gee it's really funny that you has absolutely NO problem telling the truth a week and a half ago and then you saw BM and the crap just starts flowing out of your mouth" my jaw dropped. He has NEVER said anything like that to SD EVER the look on her face was priceless and she said "but BM lies and said it's okay" I thought DHs head was going to POP! well DH tells SD "yeah well, how far has that gotten her?" and SD said "in trouble" EXACTLY! well DH sent SD to bed and just stared at me. Then he finally said "okay.your right, the bs gets worse after they see her. I see it now and I'm sorry" FINALLY he sees what I have put up with for the last week and he's not around! He also made the comment that now he sees WHY everything gets documented!

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Rags's picture

Applause!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DH has an epiphany about his spawn!

Gotta love it.

I recall when my wife had her similar epiphany. Ironically we got closer as a family once she took off her rose colored Skid glasses and started addressing our son's issues.

I hope your DH does the same and does not relapse.

OhNoYouDidNot's picture

Goodness, I'm sorry it took such an event for DH to FINALLY see! Why can't our spouses take a step back and understand that we don't raise these issues against THEM, but to help teach some of these affected children some VALUES!!!

Well, good for you and DH Smile

Jsmom's picture

Isn't it great when they finally see it for what it is. Suddenly they start calling them out on stuff we had been pointing out all along. When I disengaged from SD that was about a month after suddenly he got it.

Bex_S's picture

Oh it's a delightful feeling when DH realises his precious little princess is actually a little cunt...my DH finally realised that she is just a carbon copy of her mother. HA!