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Update to the spy game

snoopyinoz's picture

Spoke with the atty and there isn't a damn thing that can be done. NOTHING! We were told if BM calls (yeah like THAT will happen) we are to say nothing. When the girls to back for the next visit (when BM decides its conviently easy for her) we are to hand her the phone and tell her it is NOT to come to our house and it was a privacy invasion. The ONLY way anything can be done is if it happens again. As for BM taking SD13s meds we are to write a statement so it can "be put in the file" so as usual BM gets away with all kinds of BS and nothing is done.

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WTF...REALLY's picture

That's wrong. Woe. She basically "tap" your home.

Can she insists the phone go in the home as her communication with SD?

Too creepy.

snoopyinoz's picture

No. Because the SD already HAS a cell phone that DH got her. It takes and makes calls and texts. That's it

zerostepdrama's picture

Well since you have to give it back... cant you do something fun with it in the meantime?

snoopyinoz's picture

SDs live with us full time. So if and when BM decides she wants visitation, the phones going back. She got it to talk to the girls. Not that she's EVER called/texted them in the past.

zerostepdrama's picture

Exactly!

Honestly I would just take the battery out and return it to her next time you are able to. I would not be leaving it "as is" in my house.

How long was the phone at your house before you discovered the app?

snoopyinoz's picture

A day. SD13 came to us Thursday and said he had found the app. She turned it off and DH sat it on the counter in his workspace and noticed a few minuets later that the phone was back on. But we decided that until we found anything out, DH blocked the cameras and used BM own language against her. See BM is deaf, and only uses ASL. So no sound could be recorded and converted to text if we all just used ASL around the house. Then we blocked the signal completely.

Helena.Handbasket's picture

I read your other blog too. This is beyond anything I've ever heard of. I didnt' even know that was all possible. i would so have fun with her. Then hand it back as the lawyer said.

thinkthrice's picture

I would be tempted to put on a full theatrical production. Reading from the wall street journal, partcularly the ups and downs of all the stocks that day, endless boring drivel that would drive the BM up a wall.