Every. Damn. Month. We do this. The SDs KNOW they WILL go to BMs every month. There is NO getting around this we have talked to our atty, we have been to court. And yet once again BOTH SDs have started their BS thinking that "if I get in enough trouble I won't have to go to BMs" DH and I have explained to them this WILL NOT WORK the atty explained to them it WILL NOT WORK! They are ordered to go they will GO. Yet here we go again. Mouthy defiant lazy smarting off to teachers and staff, slacking off. Every month! Letters from the councilor to the judge, atty and court are on file stating that it is "not in the best interest of the children mentally or physically to see BM" yet still they are being dragged through this and DH and I are the ones dealing with this sh$t. BM is well, useless. With her it's all "spend money for the kids to like me while I'm gone all the time and leave them with my GF" (which BTW is a violation of a court order) I'm just WAITING for someone to remove their head from their a$$ and get this figured out bc I'm SICK of this dog and pony show.