SD's getting on my nerves
I am staying disengaged, but my SD's are really getting on my nerves this week. SD18 is not cleaning up her dishes, pots n pans, etc. She and her sister, SD16 love to constantly try to tell me how our house should look, where furniture should go, where I should keep on the kitchen counter vs in the pantry. They nitpick every little thing about my cat, saying that she needs her nails trimmed EVERY time they come over, or suggest giving her a bath. This is because they want to do these things because they are bored, and my cat is just a "plaything" for them. Then they like to gloat and make me feel like am neglecting my cat. Funny tho, no one ever volunteers to clean the litterboxes, clean up any kitty puke, or vacume the cat hair off the carpet.. I do that every weekend while they lay on their asses. I told DH to please tell them to NOT TOUCH my cat. This means no chasing her down to hold her, no giving her any flea medicine, no baths, and no nail trimming. That is MY job and they could harm the cat by doing this too much, since I am already giving her flea meds and trimming her nails, and she only needs baths once in a while. My cat hides from the skids most days anyways.
Then, the other night, my DH got up at 3:30 am because he couldn't sleep. He went into the SD's rooms to check on them. SD16 was gone, but her car was in the driveway. He got worried and called her phone. She said SD20 (who is not allowed in our home) stopped by and picked her up and took her to SD20;s apartment, which is filthy, so SD16 could "clean." (SD has 9 cats, and a raging coke snorting habit. Her apartment is so filthy, no one will visit. DH explained that this is not her job, and SD16 said she "didn't mind, because SD20's apartment is so dirty. DH told her to make sure she lets someone know where she is going.
Oh my gawd. Really? So not only is SD20 showing up at my house ( and likely being invited inside by her sisters at 330 am while I am asleep.) SD 20's flea-ridden apartment is being cleaned by SD16, who then comes home and sits on my couch and pets my cat. I am a little grossed out by that, and feel a bit creeped out by SD20 sneaking around my house while I am asleep. SD20 and I don't get along, due to SD20 being a sociopath.
I guess its time for a camera inside the house. What would you do? I am so irritated about the skids forcing my cat to sit still while they hack away at her poor claws.