I decided to disengage from SS5 all because me and my DH fight EOW. So I told DH that when you have him I'm going to my parents for the whole day so me and my kids don't have to deal with it. It's the same thing always DH keep your hands to your self so SS5 don't say anything. My kids always get into trouble when SS5 is here. I feel like when SS5 comes over he is above me DH's step sons and DH's DD we always come last from SS5. I don't do anything for SS5 any more I tell SS5 go tel/ask your dad.