I just got off the phone a little while ago after a two hour argument. He basically turned everything around and said I don't communicate or talk to him enough and he doesn't get off on looks alone. He said I make him feel like nothing more than a tool.

Basically, everything I said was taken as a personal attack and insult and that I could remedy this myself if I would just talk to him more. He takes no accountability and everything is pretty much my fault. He doesn't understand where I am coming from at all and pretty much all he said is I'm selfish.

I don't know. Maybe I'm supposed to be alone. He seems to think I'm only with him because I don't want to be alone and everything I said in response to that was twisted into some insult and attack on him. He didn't want to hear my "pity party" which it seemed he was making it into his.

I wasn't looking for a pity party, I was looking for compromise; he gave none.