WHEN WILL IT STOP!!!
Ive been HAPPILY married for 2yrs now. My husband has 2 girls and I have a son. Since day 1 of our relationship his ex has been CRAZY!!! When does all the calling and stalking end??? Does it ever?? She is always calling him for stupid reasons cussing him etc. Hes a great dad and pays child support and more has them every weekend why she goes out drinking. The girls even say shes never there. She knows what we do , what we buy everything. She has a few of the same friends on fb that we did, till we deleted them and thats how she found out everything. But when we have the kids shes always calling asking what IM doing where IM at I mean really. She txts him all the time calls all the time making it hard on me and him. I feel that unless it is important and ONLY concerns the kids, is the only reason to call but no not her, its all the time and its putting a strain on our relationship. I know and can tell she still loves him but she cheated she left him. I just want the calls and txts and all the drama to stop but she cant. Ive neverin my life seen anyone like her. She THINKS the world revoles around HER, well news flash it doesnt. And this is just the beginning of my issues and whats been going on. Does anyone have advice on the calls and txts and stuff he has told her but she doesnt get it.
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Unfortunately it may never
Unfortunately it may never stop. SO's crazy ex didn't stop until he got a restraining order prohibiting her from verbally or physically harassing him. Initially she tried getting one against him based on a bunch of crap, but when they went to court for it and SO showed the judge all of her crazy antics he dropped the one against SO and put one against BM.
Sorry to say but I agree it
Sorry to say but I agree it may never. I thought it would end but now there are issues with SS21 that keeps her in DH's life. You need to set boundries have DH deal with her and try and disengage as much as possible.
It probably wont stop but
It probably wont stop but will instead go through phases of differing intensity. Dealing with DH's ex has been a hard learned lesson for me. I really truly believed that people are innately good before, and now i have had it hammered into my skull that there are people out there who have so much spite, anger and jealousy that it colors who they are as a person. Do your best to disengage from her, seperate her from your life and ignore as much as you can...its not going to change most likely. We have made it painstakingly clear to BM and her current BF that we want to be civil, to not have drama, to have as little contact as possible and to give her kiddo on her weekend and get him back without drama or so much as speaking to her. It hasnt changed a thing, now not only does she create drama but so does the new boyfriend. I feel your pain, all we want is peace and peace from them.
I endured it for 16 years!
I endured it for 16 years! Yeah, call me crazy too right? I met DH when his son was 2 and his divorce was already final. The crazy BM never let up on us. Even when SS turned 18 last year and CS ended, BM still found ways to annoy DH and me. It was always the worst when something good was happening in our life - DH and I got married, had our own kids, etc. That's when BM took the crazy up a few more notches.
Best of luck to you in dealing with your crazy BM!
Thanks for all the advice and
Thanks for all the advice and comments. I guess it will never end, and I guess I really always knew that. I try my best to over look and ignore but its SOOOO hard and I know she knows that and that is why she does it. Again thxs
It might help if she gets her
It might help if she gets her own life. I always know when BM has a "life" meaning boyfriend. She is out of my hair and all is quiet, and then I wonder.....when will it end?