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Kinda O/T but it is about my ex!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 10:40am

My ex H has been writing our son and he has been telling him to tell me that he loves me. My son will not respond to that. then ex h has his sister contacting me on FB and telling me that he loves me.

W#hat should i do and how should I handle this? I have told his sister that he needs to stop and he needs to stop telling my son to tell me too b/c that should be between them.

I am really getting uncomfortable with him trying to get the mess to me that he still loves me. We have been divorced for 16 years.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 11:00am

My son knows we are not going to get back together he is 16 now. I don't talk to ex he is in prison first of all. Second I divorced him for a reason and I want nothing to do with him. I truly don't want to talk to him.

I will have to ignore it. However every time he does it my dh gets really upset says every thing you said he needs to stop. But how can I make him? I can't he has been doing it for a year now and after repeated times of telling him to stop he hasn't. (I went through his sister)

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 12:24pm

Write him a letter if it persists. Clearly his sister isnt talling him the message or he doesn't wanna hear it. I would suggest the letter be aas cruel as youd like it to me, but mention that regardless of whos hes telling, you know he still has feelings, but you don't return them. Stop bothering me.
Luckily your son isnt going to be harmed by this, its more annoying.