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So now BM broke up with her lesbian lover and is seeing a guy...wtf?

overit2's picture

OMG..so after the last situation w/BM and her lesbian lover the SD told us they "broke up"...supposedly they were moving in together, etc...her family pretty much disowned her so I don't know if she's putting an act or not while she tries to buy her own house, more of a 'decoy'...BUT the SD tells my bf yesterday that BM is seeing this new guy, and he seemed ok and they've been hanging out lately.

Wait..so not only are you messing the kids head up by going from woman to guy to woman to guy... but you don't even wait a few weeks or months or whathaveyou to introduce your child to the "new thing"?

I mean, I know she's white trash, I know she has had the kid live like a damn gypsy-changing houses, states, schools at least 7 times in the last few years....now yet another revolving door w/revolving genders? WTF??? LOL OH the insanity!

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overit2's picture

PA...indeed it is narcissism at it's finest. SO true!! As to why it concerns me? BEcause unlike you Auteur that is out of your relationship I am staying in mine..and I still have sd to be concerned with also. If I am on my way out there is no reason for me to be worried...but as it stands, bm's actions affect sk, which affects bf which affects me and my kids as well because the sk's behavior reflects her moms. Does that make sense?

The more irrational and crazy and all over the place bm is the more she teaches her D to act the same way. SO yes it does affect us. SHe has no concern for her kid whatsover.

I've had to get to the place of having our kids not get together anymore for a while until bf can get sd behavior straightened out...which is next to impossible if the custodial parent is busy pas'ing, and extremely inconsistent and irrational. You of all people should know this. Difference also is my bf is worthwile and good man that loves me dearly-and so I have to take all this on.

skylarksms's picture

I don't think that BM's love life should be up for discussion.

If it is affecting SD, it is up to the BF to do something about it. Not the SM.

Asher10's picture

WHY do these women feel the need to talk about their relationships with their children?Why do the children need to know each stinking little detail about an adults love life?I feel sorry for the kids.

skylarksms's picture

LOL AD!