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Luciferette has reached a new low.

NeedaFunDay's picture

I can’t wait until this wedding is over. Starry is stressing out big time, and her mom isn’t making things any easier.

I’ll have to give some background on this first.

Starry already has her bridesmaids picked out and has for months now. One of them is LittleSister12. They’ve always been close even though they are half-sisters (they have different dads). BigSister22 is not a bridesmaid. She and Starry also have different dads and have never gotten along very well. Since Starry has made this decision Nana Satan and Luciferette, along with BigSister22 have been all over her, threatening not to come to the wedding and giving her guilt trip after guilt trip. So far, Starry hasn’t budged.

Fast forward to last night.

LittleSister12 has emotional problems. She suffers from depression from having been used as a weapon and a meal ticket for so long. Her mother is awful to her, and her dad isn’t a secure staple because of how much he drinks and the fact he can’t seem to stay out of jail. This poor girl posted her dad’s bail the last time with her own money she saved.

Last week Luciferette caught her with allergy pills, and LittleSister12 admitted she wants to kill herself. Starry found out and called DH crying about it. She’s been flipping out. Starry is the one who mostly took care of LittleSister12 when she was a baby (Starry was 9 at the time).

We found out last night Luciferette has had LittleSister12 hospitalized and told Starry the reason her sister is so upset and depressed is because she feels she’s “in the middle” because she is a bridesmaid and BigSister22 is not. That is a lie. LittleSister12 is being bullied at school by the popular girls because she wears punk looking clothes and has purple hair. Plus, her home life is so screwed up. When Starry stayed over there for about 7 weeks she saw it first-hand. Both her mom and stepdad called all the kids names like “moron” and “idiot” whenever they did something stupid. The environment is totally abusive.

Starry called DH last night and was deeply upset. She kept saying, “I don’t understand how a person could be so wicked. How can Mom be so wicked?”

DH told her he and I will be praying about this situation and we are here to support her.

Starry knows about my abusive childhood and the crappy mother and father I had. She told DH that I’m one of the only people who truly understands this. I have a feeling a long text conversation or phone call between the two of us is coming…

I am so sick of parents who do this stuff. Your children are not weapons, pawns or a meal ticket. And Luciferette has treated ALL THREE of her daughters this way! LittleSister12’s dad (and his girlfriend) had come over to talk to her about her depression. When he offered to let her come live with him, she got excited and started talking about how much she wanted that (her mother has kept her from him most of the time). When Luciferette heard this, she came charging in from the other room saying that was not going to happen.

This is very much a rinse and repeat of what we went through with Starry.

Aaaaaarrrgggh! Why couldn’t Starry and Preach have just eloped?

Comments

Sweet T's picture

Some people just should not be parents. Starry is lucky to have you as a friend and role model and may the force be with you :).

SonOfABrisketMaker's picture

Can your SD reach out to her sister's dad with her concerns? Maybe he'd be willing to fight for more custody or oversight?

NeedaFunDay's picture

She has before. The problem with him is that he's constantly in trouble with the law. His credibility isn't that great.

strugglingSM's picture

Ugh! Maybe your SD should say "fine, don't come to my wedding" and just enjoy herself. Sounds like her mother, big sister, and grandmother are going to make drama.

NeedaFunDay's picture

She did say that when her Nana and sister threatened not to come. She said, "Fine. Then don't. I don't care."

But they keep after her. It's disgusting.