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Cant stand my step kids or their moms!!

mysuesue's picture

I have a 9 yr old and I'm 9 months pregnant....My step daughters are 17 and 8 and 5. I cant stand any of them....my Husband has joint of the 5 yr old that tries and manipulate you by acting like she is 3!! The mother of the 5 yr old got the mother of the 8 yr old to not allow my H to see his other daughter because he married me and never married any of them...not only did she do that but she also got the 17 yr old to hate her father for it also. My life is hell with all these women and their kids always talking sh!t about me and my H. He pays megga bucks in child support and still has drama with them. On fathers day he wasn allowed to see the 5 yr old even tho it was his week because the mom refused to drop her off at her day care. The five yr old doesn't want my husband to spend anytime with my 9yr old daughter or me...she always has to be center of attention...all the time.. and trys to sleep with us all the time ( cause she sleeps with her mom and her bf at her house ) cant eat food properly and anything she touches gets broke or tore up...I hate that I cant stand her or any of his kids really. Its like I'm not good at being a woman. She cant even put a straw in a juice and always says " I cant doooo it" just so you have to do everything for her...she acts totally different when playing with my daughter she doesn't talk like she is 3 and even threatens to hit my daughter or tell on her if she dont do what she wants. omgoodness I cant stand the weeks she is here with us, I question all the time if I cant keep doing this...not sure I can...he has way to much drama and kid problems, but I feel like if I leave I let them win lol. I dont know what to do honestly.... I do love him and we are about to have a baby so its confusing. Is there anyone that has the same issues??

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DaizyDuke's picture

I have two nut job BMs neither of whom DH ever married and two skids.. SD14 and SS13. The kids used to be pretty decent when I first met DH 5 years ago, but now through years of conditioning by their evil, scumbag mothers, are no longer likeable to me. SD14 moved in with us a month ago and she already showed her true colors yesterday by blowing DH off on Father's Day. She is at her skanky BMs now and DH hasn't talked to her or seen her since the drama yesterday. I hope and pray that she will run back to BM or anyone really...

anyway, welcome and know that you are not alone.

sterlingsilver's picture

my question is: can you actually ban dh's or SO's kids from the home? I mean, it's his home too and so his kids should be allowed. Unless they're adults I guess.

Just curious...

PS, I'd LOVE to ban my ss18 from my home.

mysuesue's picture

Thanks guys!! I always felt like I couldn't say how I really felt cause Im being told that I'm being mean and she is only 5 yrs old....and they are his kids so take it or leave it Sad I love this site lol!!! I also got along with the kids until the moms tell them mean things about me or says things in reference to me to other people...I get dirty looks and the 5 yr old crys when I pick her up from day care...Its embarrassing because It makes me feel like omgoodness I swear Im not as bad as she is making me seem!!