BF of 6 years not telling his GF his granddaughter is pregnant
Ok so I'm sorry ....I'm writing this about my mother who is having a hard time deciding if she is over the top feeling this way.
My mom has been dating a man for 6 years....they live in their own homes but my mom stays with him from Wednesday until Sunday because he feels more comfortable at his house then hers. The reason.....his 41 year old daughter and son in law live right next door.
My mom doesn't care for his daughter or SIL because they have free access to Wades home....they come in when my mom is there cleaning to take meat from the freezer they go in Wades house to get towels, fishing poles, dog treats for their dogs etc......they don't knock or anything....my mom and Wade could be cuddling on the couch and the daughter sends her kids ( Wades grandkids) over to tell my mom and Wade they have to watch them because their parents are going out! WTH...
So my mom put her foot down and now she only will spend the weekends at his house because he LIKES the way his daughter is.
It's gotten ridiculous.....the last ur he has been taking my mom to less and less places because he says he needs to tighten up his finances to leave his kids a lot of money. I know for a fact he has over 600k in an annuity that pays him 30k a year and his house and car are paid for.
So my mom called me this morning crying because his other daughter who lives 2 streets over from him has a daughter who is 26. So again one of grandchildren.....they came over last night and told my mom she was pregnant....my mom acted excited and said to Wade " Wow.....how exciting "
He then told my mom he had known about it for a month, but that his daughter had forbidden him from telling anyone. My moms response " I didn't realize I was just anyone". And she left.....she hasn't called him and he hasn't called her.
She is seriously considering ending the relationship with him because she is done with his kids.....and she just can't believe he would keep something like that from her.
What do you guys think???
Personally, I don't think she overreacted.....I think his kids are his priority and not my mom. bTW my mom is 63 and he is 72 so it's not like they can just up and meet someone else. They have been together for 6 years.