His child causes trouble but me and him are the ones that need counselling!!!! I could of just slapped him sideways!!!

I declare-

Your kid decides to wash her muddy trainers by the baby's bottles at the kitchen sink

Your kid takes the lid of the babies medicine and moves the box so I know its been done on purpose

Your kid threatens my (our) baby but I'm the enemy

Your kid says you will never pick anyone over her (in our faces)

Your kid lies about me

Your kids have no manners and don't wash everyday

Your bm is constantly involved in our lives for the kids ( while I'm in labour giving birth as well)

Your kid stands behind the door listening to my conversations while I'm on the phone

Your kid listens to our conversations behind the door, you know it even catch her but you don't even mention it (creepy or what) at 14

Your kids are messy I should clean it up

Your kid needs counselling

Your kid is rude to me and is bullying me in my own home

You sleep with your kids and not me

You want your kids on our honeymoon

You are manipulated so I must be as well because you can't see it

Your kids need half our income beyond what you must pay for child support because they are so important and you just hear the moaning about bills and he don't have any money

You should basically kiss his kids ass that don't deserve a hello because she needs the world

the kid has no manners but of course you should never mention it because how dare you when you are only the woman that saved his ass from going mad and being a crack addict (no messing)

Do we deserve better?