We Finally Had our first court Hearing- BM Shows up late of course with a stupid smile on her face..
I had to laugh because when BM got there to check in- she had to use the clerks phone to call "one of" her boyfriends to tell him how to get there- She still has "no phone" She saw me sitting there and probably felt she needed "someone" to be there too..
She is using the same pro-bono attorney she used for her middle son's case-
Our lawyer asked if we wanted to go for the 3 sessions of mediation with the lunatic or get a guardian ad litem, we chose the guardian that can check into some things such as SS's lack of any form of organized education, his delayed speech/medical records etc- She had denied DH these things for years as a means of control- We found it funny that she suddenly "claimed" to be working full time now when DH's child support has always been based on her having "O" income- Also she told the judge that she has SS in a pre-k IEP program and that since she works on Fridays, DH will have to come all the way to her city to get the child-250 miles for us to travel there and back and there and back. The judge said "Well if he's in daycare and you're at work, wouldn't DH just be able to pick SS up from daycare???"
The judge wanted proof of her "new" full time job and in addition the proof that SS was enrolled in the Pre-K IEP program at the time of the court date- Our lawyer asked if DH could get SS "right now" since he is in the city and is currently on vacation for 2 weeks- BM had the most awkward look on her face and bregrudgingly says.. "Yeah.. DH can have him, he can get him anytime he wants" Our lawyer said, well.. isn't SS in Daycare right now??? Once again BM had a stupid look on her face.. The judge reinforced wanting the documentation proving BM's employment and SS's child care- Also BM's lawyer asked DH's to pay for SS's child care to hold his spot while he's with us for 2 weeks- The judge said "DH is not paying a dime, until you can prove to me, that SS is even enrolled"
So here are my questions
Will the Guardian ad litem see right through BM and all that she has denied this child for the last 5 years even if she puts on her phony false front?
Will BM be able to weasel out of the fact that I believe she's lying about the job and the daycare, I think she fabricated the full time job, to get out of having to meet us half way on distance- I also think she'll try to enroll SS after the fact will the judge care if she was initially lying?
I know it depends on the court and judge but has anyone else gone through the guardian ad litem process? what can we expect
I'm afraid BM won't be seen for the trashy monster she really is-