i dont care if u were snooping or not, it warrants explanation...

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

What??? Hurt and pissed would be an understatement and he would have a hell of alot of explaining to do!

In a perfect world their would be retroactive abortion capabilities. ~ disgusted

skip being upset, and onto pissed off!"~waiting on the world to change~"

to try to explaine?

There is no explination. Telling another woman her smile is intoxicating is grounds for divorce or murder. You pick.

It doesn't matter if you were snooping on purpose or not if he is writing that it is Trouble. Dying to know what the excuse was for that type of behavior. You really have to look at the choice of words to it wasn't just "I really like your smile. It really cheers me up." but Intoxicating! Wow! and you just married him! Make your man grovel he deserves it.

he shouldnt be emailing or complimenting any other woman besides you or family..I would have my husbands butt if he did that..

You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.
Sir Winston Churchill..

Wrong choice of words, are you kidding me is right? Shit I would be doing more to find out how Intoxicating her smile really is... That would not go over well with me... I be talkin to her, and telling him bye bye.

However, it very well may be completely innocent. I think more info and context is needed. At least is would be for me if I found those choice of words in my wife's left open e-mail account.

Best regards,

Yes, I would be pissed initially but I also need more info here. Who was he e-mailing? It could be nothing, but I sure would want to find that part out and pronto!

Yes, I would be pissed initially but I also need more info here. Who was he e-mailing? It could be nothing, but I sure would want to find that part out and pronto!

Intoxicating...is not a word you use everyday, so how can it be a mix up of words?...what the hell was he smiling about to her...

more then likely he is innocent and he was just being nice and this women just went to the next level.... check it out,,,then find her and show her your INTOXICATING fist in her mouth....

Any man who would tell a woman she has an intoxicating smile...HELLO he is flirting with her. I would really be interested in knowing how he tried to explain this away....

WTF - this is very strange behavior, especially for a newlywed???

"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin

Must be a online thing then. I'd look through the pictures he's downloaded latley, maybe you can look at her smile that way?

How about you send an email to this "stranger?" Pretend you are DH and say something like you don't think this is working out. See what the reaction is. Then you'll really know. I'll bet that smile won't be so intoxicating any more. More like toxic.

“When all else fails, get a dog.”

This is how my BF caught BM cheating on him. He found numerous emails she wrote to other men and they were very sexually graphic. I had read them and I am no prude but they grossed me out. BM also sent pictures and they were XXXXXXX!

same game.I believe in giving people a taste of thier own medicine.Just to make them understand how you may feel.If i were you i would have some flowers sent to yourself at your house and put from a secret admirer.If he gets pissed just tell him that now he knows how you feel about his email.When you are married there are certain boundries you dont cross and he crossed it.What goes around comes around !!!!

I'd be launching a full investigation on the computer and checking his phone records as well. Don't let him know you are snooping otherwise he will do everyting to cover his tracks but I'm sure if he's up to no good he already has. How did he meet this person? Is he browsing/or a member of online dating sites? Check them all....match.com, cupid.com, etc. to find out if he has a profile. Does he have a myspace or facebook? Is he portraying himself as single or what? Check the history of the computer (although if he is being sneaky, he would have already deleted it). I would also send miss "intoxicating smile" an email and inform her that she is corresponding with a married man and what are the intentions. Keep a very close eye on him!!

Did you check his inbox as well??

"OCD sucks"
Habit and routine have an unbelievable power to destroy.
--Henri de Lubac

also tell him you want him to log in to his account while you are there and let you read his stuff. See what he says to that!

"OCD sucks"
Habit and routine have an unbelievable power to destroy.
--Henri de Lubac

Stranger from MD? I would be all over his ass about this one. I would look in his email account and see what he is up to. This is a major red flag. I would also email that person and find out what was going on. Any updates since you posted this???