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4 years later and she's trying to get in fdh's pants lol

misscinna's picture

FDH tells me before his trip that he recieved a text from princess that said

"So are you in love with Cinna?"

He said he spent a few minutes contemplating many many respinses including "very much so, i am very happy" then decided to send her nothing and delete the text. I agree with his decision, she has no right to know anything about him/us/me at all. He says if she continues to bring this up he will address it.

HE told me that she is super opportunistic and is miserable in her life and that she found out he just got a big promotion and is making some good money. So she hits him up! Id be mad if it wasnt so sad

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bi's picture

you know what i find funny? these women do not understand that even if these men were miserable in their relationships/marriages, that does not mean the ex suddenly looks better and better to them. why do they assume that these men will come running to them at the first sign of discontent in a new relationship? my ex's ex used to ask him all the time if he was happy with me. when he would say yes, she would grin like she just caught him in the silliest lie and say in a sing songy voice "come on, now!"

she called his house while i was there and i answered. she had the nerve to question what i was doing there. :? we had a little conversation in which i let her know that the reason ex was not with her was NOT because he was with me, he wasn't with her because he didn't want to be with her anymore, it had nothing to do with me. she got pissed off and called again a couple days later when we were both there to tattle on me. he let her know that he knew what i said, i told him. he also told her i was sitting right there and that i was right, whether he's with me or anyone else or not, he's never going to be with her again. the desperation and stupidity that some people reek of is nauseating.

misscinna's picture

Exactly! During his divorce I moved in with my mom for a bit to let the shit storm settle. She assumed we were over with and she was back in so she asked him when he would have me come get my stuff so she could move into his new house.....imagine how surprised she was to learn that never was the answer and two months later I came back home. Just went to mommys long enough to get things finalized lol! I didnt even take my stuff! HE was the one who told me to keep it there cuz id be back. Lol. Every time she sees a grand opportunity with ANYONE male to be a financial back up plan she takes it. Fdh has said himself that she doesnt give a fuck WHO it is, love or no love, ex or not she'll take it. Desperate much?

misscinna's picture

This is exactly my case too. All the sudden I stay home, we have a new tv, cars, beautiful house etc. she wants back in. he said it himself that he wouldnt take her back in a million years. He wouldnt do it to himself or the kids because he spent sooo much time unhappy that it wasnt fair to him and the kids were too and it wasnt fair to them. I was like wow. Deep.

asheeha's picture

yeah, bm in my life does this pathetic stuff too.

except when dh is silent it just encourages her to believe whatever she wants. but even when he outright rejects her she doesn't listen either.

this is a conversation they had after we were engaged...

bm: so are you going to take me back?

dh: no

bm: are you going to take me back?

loooooooong pause

bm: dh?

dh: yeah?

bm: are you going to take me back?

dh: [in a very exasperated and disgusted voice] NO!

bm: well, do you know any good guys?

pathetic!

Newstep's picture

Why do they do this :? I would never stoop to that level geez I have self-respect!!!! BM has been telling people that her and SO will be together again one day. Because they always get back together. Yeah whatever BM.

misscinna's picture

Dude, FDH divorced HER. Took the kids. Took the dogs. Left her with the shit in the house. HE left HER. She has used up her string of boyfriends and their $$ and now he's looking like a better and better meal ticket. He even told her a YEAR before they started their divorce that he didn't love her, didn't want to be with her and was miserable. Without shedding a tear she responds "Well you want a divorce or what?" She doesn't care about anyone more than herself, it's just the next paycheck.