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BM is obsessed with me!

MARLA_823's picture

No joke. She copies everything I do. I start wearing rhinestone sunglasses, so did she. I start wearing skater shoes, so did she. I cut my long hair super short... SO DID SHE! If that doesn't convince you, she starts shopping at my work which is 20 min from her house. My store is a little one and she's got a walmart right around the corner. She started using the special nickname we use for SD after I used it on FB. (it's not a nickname that you come up with randomly) Speaking of FB, she calls or texts me or DH after EVERY SINGLE post or change I do on there! DH says I'm her homepage. The worst part? She FOLLOWS me! I look in my review mirror everyday after picking up SD from school and there's BM! DH didn't believe me, so to test my theory, I turned down different random streets everyday and sure enough so did she! DH says "imitation is the greatest form of flattery", but I think this imitation is more like those movies where the stalker is trying to BECOME the victim. If I don't post for a while, she got me!

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MARLA_823's picture

I always threaten to file harrassment charges but I never follow through. Everytime I threaten SHE blocks my number, even though SHE'S the one calling/texting. I guess so she doesn't have the temptation to call/text?

purpledaisies's picture

I think I would do the same thing everyday she is following you stop at the police station and report that she is following you.

MARLA_823's picture

Yes but only if she's seen me wear the same sunglasses and trenchcoat before! LMAO I think I will have DH call her if she does it today. I usually call him then anyways to tell him she's following me again. She sucks at stalking, though, follows way too close!

skylarksms's picture

I'd say, let her see you in the nerdiest stuff you can find at the thrift store. You know, black rimmed glasses, pocket protector, the whole stereotypical bit.

Then you can laugh at her when you see her all nerded out!

SillyGilly's picture

I agree with skidsmimi.....

And you need to block her from FB NOW!

MARLA_823's picture

Can they really do something? I would love it if they could! When she was copying my clothes it was whatever, but since she started following me I have actually made sure someone always knows my whereabouts! I'm sure she's completely harmless, it's just kinda freaky! My work can't tell her not to come in unless she does something, and I've had my sister coming to the school with me. I blocked her on FB already. She's the reason I deleted myspace.

SillyGilly's picture

Drive in circles and see how long she follows you. You might as well get some entertainment out of it.

Rags's picture

Can you say STALKER!!!!!

In addition to going to the Police Station and having them record your concern as Mimi recommended and in circles as Silly recommended, the next time she follows you go to a gun shop, a TAZER shop and a martial arts center. That ought to freak her out a bit. Blum 3

Best regards,

MARLA_823's picture

Haha! Thanks all of you! I'm actually about to leave to go up there right now! I'll let you know what happens!

SillyGilly's picture

Hahaha, that's a new twist. Do something so that she calls DH to tell on you and then he can be like "WHY WERE YOU FOLLOWING HER?!"

purpledaisies's picture

I like that LOL...Hey I would really do it too. I'd tell dh my plan that I'm picking up a friend or a relative of some sort and let her call dh!! Make sure he is a very young hot guy!

MARLA_823's picture

I forgot to mention she got pregnant a couple months after I did. Funny thing the date she claims she got pregnant doesn't add up to her due date. I think she said it and THEN got knocked up! Also, her other kids SM got knocked up a couple months after BM, and BM told me "I know she only got pregnant because I was." REALLY??? BM was going on about how our kids can be in the same class. PSYCHO!!!

stronggirl's picture

okay that is way too close for comfort....Why don't you turn the tables and Follow HER? ha....that would be great!

iwishyouwould's picture

I i were you, i'd file a police report. if she didnt stop, id take her to court. im not a 'play along with the game' kinda gal. Im a 'leave me alone or i will sue you' kind of a gal.

unbelieveable's picture

1. Wear something really ugly. Make her copy it. and spike up your bangs like in that movie, "there's something about Mary..." let her copy that!

2. Please take her off your facebook! this is just asking for HELL if she is your friend on there! Maybe if you delete her she will get the point! This is good advice for the future! GET RID OF HER!

sixteensmom's picture

Go test drive a new porche and go shopping at the best shops, go into high end salons and spas. Put on your facebook status that you're going to Paris for the holidays. Make her crazy with jealousy and giggle as she tries to keep up.

Tell your coworkers to call her your name when she comes to your shop.

Dress up your sd just like you too. Matching outfits and hairdos.

sixteensmom's picture

Go test drive a new porche and go shopping at the best shops, go into high end salons and spas. Put on your facebook status that you're going to Paris for the holidays. Make her crazy with jealousy and giggle as she tries to keep up.

Tell your coworkers to call her your name when she comes to your shop.

Dress up your sd just like you too. Matching outfits and hairdos.