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I’m just done being his mom

Mammaof2plus2's picture

I love my SS I do he’s 9 I’ve been in his life since he was 3. I thought it would get easier the older he got. I know he had his problems with the ADHD and learning disability. And I can handle that it’s his mom influence it’s her voice and words and attitude coming off of him that I can’t handle. It’s her using him and him being her pawn. I just can’t take it anymore I just want to stop being his mom. Because I don’t want to start hating him. But he says things and has such an attitude and I can’t say anything to him without him having an attitude. What do I do just stop talking to him all together? Idk what to do 


tog redux's picture

Well, that's an easy fix, because you weren't his mom in the first place!  Let your husband deal with HIS child, you get to step back and disengage. 

Aniki's picture

Hon, you are not his mom. He has a bio mom. She may be crappy  but he's got one.

Where is the boy's father? Why is he not caring for his child? Is custody 50/50 or what?

Harry's picture

you are not his mother,  you will never be his mother,  he has one.  If DH wants visitation let him handle SS.