BM is pregnant
I've been calling it for months now...that she would get knocked up. She's been in jail for the majority of the last 3 years off and on and in that time I have married my husband, had a baby, household got full custody of SD8, and now we are expecting our 2nd baby any day now. I knew that BM would get knocked up, and on purpose too. It's understandable..she feels pathetic and lonely and a new baby seems like the ultimate fix..except it's not. BM is a multi felon junkie with no job, no car, no license, living at home loser who doesn't even take care of her first kid.
And what about SD?? Does anyone have custody of their skid while BM has another kid that lives there full time? I can't imagine how much it will hurt SD's feelings to see her mom and mom's boyfriend start this new family with the new baby (they all live at BM's mother's house..) BM doesn't even have visitation of SD, but we do let her go over there every other weekend.
As far as I know SD doesn't know yet about the pregnancy.
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My sd's bm has had two kids
My sd's bm has had two kids since walking away from SD. She knows that she has a little brother....but she doesn't know about her little sister. She doesnt see bm ever though so she isn't watch her mom play happy family without her.
Bm has had 4 kids....4 different dads and SD is the only one she didn't want to keep. SD knows her older sister....but I bet those memories are fading fast....she saw her for a few months when SD was 4, so I don't know that she has any real recollection of her big sister.... Other than knowing she has one and her name. She's never met the younger brother....bm had moved away alreadyvwhen she had him...we only know about him because she was pregnant when she got hauled into court for not paying child support. Then she had the little girl after she fled the state to avoid child support enforcement again.....we only found out about that kid from a mutual acquaintance.
I'm sure it would cause SD a lot of issues if bm was around....having to see bm be a real mom to her three other kids but so nothing for her. But out of sight out of mind in our case.
Yeah, I have two BMS who are
Yeah, I have two BMS who are complete pieces of crap.
Ss's bm got pregnant again (allegedly) but she had a still birth (allegedly).....SS doesn't know anything about it. His bm lost custody of her three kids (only one of which was dhs) due to neglect. She PASed her two older boys and their dad gave up and gave them back to her against the court order that she never has custody of her kids again. Within one month of getting them back they had dropped out of high school. She has currently left the state because child support was going to throw her in jail for not paying child support in years.
My dh really knew how to pick em
Yep, we just found out last
Yep, we just found out last night that BM1 is expecting with her latest boyfriend of maybe 6 months? This is kid # 5 for BM, baby daddy #3. SD15 lives with us, BM doesn't pay a dime towards her existance. The other 3 girls (with some other guy) live mostly with the grandma, highly doubt BM pays anything towards them either. And Oh, happy day! She's going to bring yet another kid into the world. WTF is wrong with people?
I guess SD15 grandma told DH yesterday about all of this and told DH not to tell SD. DH told her to pound salt, that he was going to tell her, because um, duh, she's going to find out shortly anyway! DH said when he told SD15 about BM that her exact words were "she's such a piece of shit"