Feeling myself getting triggered…
Seeing this goofy ass dude run around at his exwife and kids beck and call on his noncustodial parenting times whilst paying her child support and car payments just to see her stick back and do bare ass minimum for the kids she chose to bring in this world
Last weekend he admitted he was STILL paying this manipulative b*tch car payments while she goes on vacations that she can't afford then traipses her conniving ass back in town and wants more of a vacation from her kids by refusing to take them to school
i guess he wanted sympathy (hold his hand, rub his butt, and tell him he's doing a great job role modeling for his kids on how to be a spineless weak b*tch for your ex; oops I mean "good parent") or some grace on paying bills or something to which I give him none.
Why tf should I care if he chooses to be a doormat?
I STILL expect a man to be a man and provide for me as a partner regardless. Sh*t if she's demanding provisions for herself and her spawns then I'm demanding double plus inconvenience tax!
Anyways I'm trying not to get triggered because I'd rather focus on getting away from these lowlife people.
On a good note my side business I started (help me get a second income stream to more easily make it out of here) doubled since last month. I'm still in the red but if it keeps doubling each month I should be in the black soon! I just wish I could have figured out how to get a business credit card so this wouldn't have impacted my personal credit.
I plan to initiate some girls only hangouts or anything that can get me away from the obligations to him and his kids on the weekends (basically give their ass the same "just below bare ass minimum that his exwife gives him - since it seems to work lol!) until I can leave
If he expects anything more he needs to plan AND pay!!!
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For these guilty daddies
Chef has a coworker who is still kissing his ex wife's backside even though they've been divorced For well over twenty years and his children are all grown and left home.
He actually never dated because he is still trying to please the ex although she has moved on a long time ago..
Pretty pathetic. Ask him why and he said he's still "friends with the ex because of the kiiiiiiiiiids!"
This guy buys his ex pets that she never takes care of and ends up giving them to the animal shelter. He fixes her car and her house right underneath his ex's boyfriend's nose!
Gross!
Gross! I hate the excuses of "oh my kids suffer" or "oh I'm being a used like a doormat by my ex for the sake of my kids"
Um no you're further role modeling for your kids how unhealthy relationships operate and allowing your adult relationships to suffer because you're not ready to be in a relationship/should be single until your kids are grown
My mother complained about the same thing. Her dude still helped his exwife financially even AFTER those kids were grown lol.
My mom totally allows it though she has no kids, no marriage, and nothing tying her to that dude
sick and disgusting
Im sooooo glad you are on the exit plane to a new life!
Doing extra for the X. More like Dupe-ing extra for the X.
He is her dupe.
I am thrilled you are refusing to be his.
Keep working the exit plan.
Take care of you.