Vibrating with stress
DH switched jobs. Pay weeks are now opposite what they used to be and it’s really f*cking up my budget plan. Like, I literally have the shakes after trying to rearrange my budget spreadsheet so we can pay everything on time and not end up in the red week after week. We’re budgeted to the hilt and our credit cards are almost maxed. But I digress… In an effort to avoid blowups, I warned BM that we might have to double up on CS payments one week – meaning one payment would be a week late. Not that our finances are really any of her business but if this b*tch doesn’t get her check on time, she’s like a gremlin at a waterpark.
So what is her response to my polite heads up? “Ok. DH knows, but you’re also very behind on car insurance. He said he was going to get it caught up when he finishes his next side job.”
I wanted SOOOOO bad to tell her “He agreed to that, not me, so don’t bother asking me about it.” But that would have started a sh*tstorm of messages that I don’t need to deal with today.
I will be so glad when the kids are both over 18 and I don’t have to pretend to like her anymore.