Am I overreacting?
DH is out of town on a trip with his family (not the issue here, I encouraged him to go).
I've been at home taking care of DD2, DD3, plus the 3 teenage skids.
I took SD14 to a therapy appointment Wednesday at 6pm. With nobody to watch DDs I had to take them with me so we went to the grocery store across the street while we waited. I let them pick out a treat and we bought a 12 pack of mini cupcakes. Since there are 6 of us at home everyone was told they get TWO cupcakes. I only gave my DDs 1 each Wednesday night and was going to save the other two for them to have Thursday. I went to bed Wednesday and there are exactly 2 cupcakes left, I wake up Thursday and there is only 1. Turns out SD16 decided to eat a 3rd one with no explanation as to why.
I know this is just cupcakes and not the end of the world, but I was frustrated that SD would just decide on her own to eat an extra one, and that I would then have to deal with the fallout from toddlers having to explain they both couldn't have a cupcake now.
Anyways, I texted DH Thursday AM and told him what happened, and told him I was frustrated, I saw that he had read the message at 7:30 AM. He never replied to my message...finally at 9:30pm he messaged just that "he was ready to be home". I went to sleep and responded this morning saying
KSMOM: Me too, tomorrow!
KSMOM: Did you get my message yesterday AM?
DH: About the cupcakes?
DH: Shall I send SD16 a message
KSMOM: I was just venting, I was frustrated. Just wanted some sympathy or at least acknowledgement that it sucked. I got neither
DH: sorry that happened
Then he tried to change the subject, which I've been responsive but short about. Am I over reacting? honestly I think it's stupid that this is about a dang cupcake, but the fact that I was just trying to vent and I just straight up get IGNORED pisses me off. Then when I tell him it bothered me he says something to appease me, but does not apologize for ignoring me at all. I'm not going to fight with him about this over text, but I just don't know if it's worthwhile to taint his homecoming with it either