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Do we really have to deal with this for the next 9 years??????

klynn's picture

OMG, I hate BM!!! She is such a bitch! My SO asked her to give us a 15 minute notice before showing up at our house and that sent her over the edge! Really?? Is that too much to ask for? She's shows up whenever she wants without any notification at all. I won't have that because she has been known to become physically violent with us and I do not want to run into her in my driveway...I don't believe that is too much to ask. Apparently it is for her because the skids were supposed to be at our house this week starting Friday after school and when they didn't get off the bus, my SO called the older daughter and she said he needed to call her mom and she would tell him. So he did and she said that the kids weren't coming over because they didn't want to. WHATEVER!!! She is the most manipulative bitch ever! She's trying her damndest to convince those kids that their dad is a deadbeat and a horrible person. He is a great guy! He has 50/50 custody and spends lots of time AND his money raising those kids. He pays child support AND half of everything!

The police won't do anything, because it's a "civil matter". So, he will either have to show up at the school to pick these kids up and she will absolutely cause a scene at the school (she's also known for causing scenes in public in front of her children) or take the matter to court.

WHAT THE HELL DO WE DO NOW?!?!?!

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onebright1's picture

I feel for ya, THis is the EXACT thing our BM does.
And yes, most likely he is gonna hafta pick them up from school and he is going to have to start being a hard a$$ and file contempt charges and deal with her public scenes.
Truth of it is, as long as he stays calm, no one will think a thing of him. She will be the one embarrassing herself and her kids. But trust me, no one will hold her assinine behavior against him.

Jsmom's picture

File contempt charges immediately. If you don't she will continue this type of crap.