For those of you who have been following my blogs you would know that BF and I have been going through a really rough patch lately and within the last 4 hours it just got 10 times worse.

The last 3 days have been nothing but small talk with BF as there were some pending issues between us. Well this morning I had had enough. During an over the phone argument I told BF that I’ve had enough and that this was the end. I said that I will stay for SS11 birthday party this evening but when he leaves to drop the skids off to BM I will gather my things and leave.
As you can imagine it didn’t end there, many hurtful things were said to each other until we both hung up angrier at each other than when we started the conversation.
Then it got 10times worse.
After about 10min of me getting in to work this morning I received a phone call from my MIL saying that grandma is very sick and doctors have just called to say that family should come and say their last goodbyes asap as she doesn’t have much longer. Grandma has been in hospital sick since Christmas and everyone has been crossing their fingers hoping she makes it to her 90th birthday in June. Well MIL called me because she was looking after SS for us and asked me if she should drop him off to me at work or call BM. MIL didn’t want to ring BF because she knows how close he and his grandmother are and she was too upset and wanted to hurry to the hospital which is 2 and a half hours away.
I knew I had to do the right thing and tell BF straight away; there are some things you put aside when an emergency happens.
So BF answers his phone with a shitty “yeah, what do you want”, I explained that there was something serious I needed to tell him. I told him what happened and you could tell while I was telling him that he didn’t want to speak to me and all he said was why did MIL ring you and not me and when I told him why he said okay then, Bye, and hung up.
I don’t know what to do now. I want to be there for him but I am still very upset as he is with me. I don’t know what’s going to happen with the party tonight as the in laws definitely won’t be coming and if grandmother does pass away I don’t even know if BF will ring and even tell me.
I don’t want to ring BF back as he did say he was busy working, but how should I approach this, pretend there was no argument? ring him later on this afternoon and see if he has heard anything from MIL even though there is a good chance he wont even answer my calls. I just don’t know what to do from here.

Please I need some advice! Any advice!