So lawyer advice
When we hired this lawyer she promised us all kinds of results. Second pretrial, basically NOTHING is being changed, except that psychopantsbitchface ex wife publicly badmouthed both DH and me in a court of law, told a judge Dh didn't care about the kids etc etc, which was not relevant anyway. All we wanted was to change the visitation schedule. As soon as we had the info from the kids daycare it was clear that what we wanted was not possible at this time. My question, why didn't our lawyer get this info right away? Why did she let us drag this out and go into huge debt? When she knew we didn't have a chance? Also why did she let bitchface bring up character witness type stuff (which amounted to basically "here's a lot of unsubstantiated opinions based on how much I hate him")? What can I do about this? I feel betrayed by the lawyer, i feel she lied to us. I feel she should have had that info first and told us what to expect, instead of a year later and two pretrials being like "too bad!" I also feel she should have objected the crap out of irrelevant slandering on the stand.
Ugh i want to cry.