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Sick of Evil BM

just_tired's picture

We have had full custody of SS9, SD8 & SS7 for most of the year and just won sole custody with BM having supervised visitations recently. BM is bat shit crazy, she lost her kids due to an attention stunt (supposedly attempted suicide by taking some pills and then called 911 on herself, in the police report she admitted that she was just trying to get her bf to come back over), and she has also been arrested 6 times this year, 3 of them all involve alcohol and all of the arrest but 1 have happened after CPS taking the kids. Currently it's been over a month since she has seen the kids.

So this past Saturday BM text DH "Happy Un-Anniversary", DH handed me the phone and told me to tell her anything I wanted, so this is what I sent back to her "BM do you really think this is ok to send, DH is remarried now and you are supposedly engaged to someone else. How about you stop worrying about DH that wants nothing to do you anymore and could care less and start trying to figure out how to see you children. Sincerely - the new wife aka the woman raising your children." BM replied "LOL take a joke". I replied "We are not close nor friendly enough for you to be sending this stupid shit". BM then sent "Sincerely sorry"

Why do so many BMs have to be bi polar with personality disorder pain in asses.

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Glassslipper's picture

OMG, My BM used to do this all the time, and this year she didn't send that to DH...
but now that you tell that story, I remember one night, around the time of the year she stopped by to drop off SD school supplies for open house the next night, and I ran out to get the stuff for DH from SD, and BM went nuts in the driveway screaming for him to come out and yelling at me for coming instead of him...
I wonder if the dates co-inside...

Anyhow I'm so envious of you getting to call her out! I never have called out BM and DH never has called her out either, DH has never set boundaries, I love that you got to tell her how inappropriate she was for pulling that!

just_tired's picture

I hope you get the chance at voice your feeling someday. The only reason I feel comfortable doing it now is we have the kids and we don't have to worry what her crazy ass is gonna do with the kids in her care any more. I have bitten my tongue for other 3 years now (I know it's not that long). Since I am main care giver for my Skids (bc of my DH crazy swing swift work schedule)I think I have a right to let her know how much a dislike her and how I have no respect for her.

My DS's dad is engaged to someone else and I don't ever have to talk or deal with her and she doesn't ever have to deal with me either, that's the way it should be. My ex & I can get along for the most part bc we are adults and know that we have to co-parent our child. But some exes don't ever learn.

Mercury's picture

lmao! what a loony.

My ex sent a text like that once: "happy anti-versary" on what I assumed was the anniversary of our divorce. I was dating DH at the time and showed the text to him. When I got home from work that day, he took me out to dinner and gifted me with a gorgeous set of earrings and said "congrats, babe!".

just_tired's picture

That would have been a fabulous reply...I just don't understand what is wrong with these people

just_tired's picture

My DH had no clue it was the date they had gotten married on...LOL The only reason I remember my first marriage date is bc it was the day after my bday Wink

just_tired's picture

There was a lot of things I would have loved to say but I controlled myself. We like having the texts bc that's something we can print out and keep for any future court dates, but we rarely respond to her and she's not allowed to call or text my phone anymore due to the lovely name calling. So if DH is on 2nd shift she doesn't really have an open line of communication to her children anymore bc of her own actions.

Evil stepmonster's picture

So relieved to hear that it wasn't just my DH that knocked up an immature bitch. You handled it with much more grace than I would have.

just_tired's picture

Hell my DH knocked up the immature bitch 3 times....lol. It's nice to know I am not the only one dealing with such stupid crazy bullshit.