Tough love works (so far)
I posted about GD37 wanting to stay her with BF and dog while he looked for work in this city when they moved here from another state. Kids like to stay here: .private entrance, permissive attitude. With an effort, ("Beloved First Granddaughter!"), I said no because of DH's ailments. This meant they had to stay with the other grandma who is convalescent. I know that has been uncomfortable: small house, questions, conservative, religious slant.
Boyfriend stopped by tonight to return a tool. He starts a new job Tuesday and tomorrow, they are looking at an apartment near his work that he scoped out.
I'm so glad I said no. Otherwise, they would still be here with no end in sight.