Oh boy!!!! What will be her next course of action??????
Well, it is the holiday season and things are brewing to get really ugly I am thinking.....
We have been having an extreme blast with SD over the past few weeks..... Thanksgiving was wonderful - and we put up the christmas tree together as a family (DH, SD, ME, BD, Sister and her kids) played music had pizza and ice cream. It was wonderful!
Well then found out BM filed a court case for child support that very wednesday before Thanksgiving the same day she had to drive 1/2 way to meet DH as the new court order states. No problem. DH called Child Support worker - explained to her the deal about child support increase being denied through Division of Child Support for 3 years and the denial through the Clerk of Court system in the Sept 09 court case.
Child support worker was unaware of this - she is a new case worker (of course requested by BM) and was not given the information. She explained her system only shows the previous Div of Child Support cases were just dismissed no reasons stated. WELL DH has sent her all of the necessary information. AND case worker has said that since it was written in the order that was signed by the Judge Sept 2008 and Sept 2009 - BM will NOT BE ABLE TO FILE ANOTHER CASE WITH THEM FOR THREE YEARS FROM SEPT 2009. YEAH!!!!! Finally some justice for my DH.
NOW DH is getting emails asking him about SD's uncovered medical expenses - and how she needs money for them. Well DH has told her several times - send him the receipts and she will receive the money pronto. No receipts ever show up. The judge told her the court order states she needs to give him the receipts and he has 60 days to pay the uncovered costs. Well BM attempted to say co-pays were uncovered medical costs - Judge said that was not true - and BM is responsible for co-pays and DH is responsible for 55% of un-covered medical costs.
When SD had a dental procedure done - DH drove down to NC same day and paid the $125.00 so that BM would not have to come out of pocket to be reimbursed. DH has not heard about anything un-covered during his conversations with SD's doctor's on several occaisions.....
But however DH has gotten two emails and a couple text between Friday and today asking what is he going to do about the unpaid medical costs. There is no mention of how much it is? There are no receipts. DH and BM see each other every other weekend.... and she will not hand over the first receipt.
SD is with us for the next two weekends and 26 Dec - 3 Jan. I am starting to think she wants this extra money for spending money of some sort - or wants it for christmas money. she has already gotten $800.00 in child support for the month. What else could this chick want or need. Geez! We have to buy for SD and my daughter here for xmas. We were diligent enough to ensure she got her support early before christmas - and this greedy woman still wants more.
Not this time. DH already talked with the lawyer and he stated - this was already handled in Sept 09 - Court order was final. If something else comes across the court in reference he will file paperwork to have it dismissed.