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Calm before the storm

Harleygurl's picture

Yesterday BM told DH that he couldn't see SS7 because our home is not deemed unsafe because DH voluntarily went to rehab. She lied and told him that I told her this. Not! DH was more than furious because she thinks she's the almighty decision maker and she is seriously PASing SS7. I convinced DH to back down for NOW. We already know that the police in the town where BM lives won't get involved because DH has called them before for assistance when she has refused to even answer the door or let SS7 come out. He sent her a text telling her, not asking, that he will get SS7 this Friday after school. She, of course being the weenie that she is, backed down and said that was fine. She thinks she's in control (which she's not but hey, we let her live in delusional land) and DH gets to have SS7. Now come Friday, if she doesn't let him have SS7 then yes there will be contempt charges filed.

She claimed yesterday that she never liked the week on/week off schedule that they agreed to and she wants it changed in court. She also said SS7 said he never wanted to see DH again or come to our house. Either she's lying (this is the one I'm going with) or she's PASing the child. And she stated how she wanted to go to court and get it changed, which she says whenever she doesn't like how something is going, but the funny thing is she never seems to actually file the paperwork. Does she think eventually DH will say "Well sure, MOTY, I agree to everything you want and I will file the paperwork and pay for it to!"? Fat chance in hell of that ever happening!

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Harleygurl's picture

No. She doesn't have a pot to piss in so she couldn't afford it anyway. She just wants things back the way they were before Harleygurl came into the picture - DH cowered in fear of her and did everything according to how she wanted it. She will never get exactly what she wants because DH found his backbone. I admit I had to give him clues on where to find it but he did and that's all that matters!