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Depressing? Change that to disgusted.

Forthelifeoftheparty's picture

These idiot fathers and their psuedo parenting!

It drives me nuts. I don’t even want to witness it!

look at me, im a good dad. Im staring at a screen in the same room with my daughter who is also staring at a screen. 

 

Oh look at me, im a good dad. I am making my child food for breakfast. As long as she says please and thank you then ive done an A+ job! Nevermind that I have zero conversations with her about anything relevant to her life. I am smiling so everything is happy!

 

Look at me! Im a great dad. I lead by example and bath regularly. My 13 yo daughter hasn’t showered in days, but it’s OK. She told me she would.

Look at me! Im a great dad! Why would anypne not think so?! I am the only chance my daughter has at learning how to properly treat other human beings because her mom is a narcissistic psycho. But do I have time to address difficult topics? No. I’m too busy.

do i have time to talk to my daughter about anything beyond polite chit chat? Noooo but...

I make money so im a good dad.

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Disneyfan's picture

What about the women who make the choice to have children with these "idiot fathers" after watching their "psuedo parenting"?

Really, would you allow someone who is horrible with money to be your financial advisor?

Forthelifeoftheparty's picture

The answer is “yes i would”

 

im one of the idiot women you speak of. Did not see this pseudo parenting before. Could not recognize it for what it was. I was a fool for sure!  DHparents ds in a completely different fashion though.

Harry's picture

You have every right to tell her to stop being disgusting.  And smelling up your home.  If she wants to be a pig at BM s that ok.  But at your home she will shower, change her  Underwear’s, and smell like a person.  If DH doesn’t like it. He and his DD can live in a tent in yhe backyard. 

If you don’t say anything, it’s not going to bet better.  Maybe if she smell descent, she will find a BF and be out of your hair 

thinkthrice's picture

think waiting on their kids hand and foot equals fantastic dad. oh, and overpaying CS soothes their ego; often on the backs of SM.

caligirl510's picture

my fiance is, that's why I would never have kids with him, although I've considered it, the end result of this kind of parenting is bad kids, but that is their problem, I chose to disengage best thing yet