Still going ....thrown myself into work and looking after my son who isn't well and moved in with me for a while.

Not heard a thing from ex, although my older son has said he has been saying things to him about me, so has my SD been crying to him as she knows I think this is all down to her been a spoilt b***** not growing up (21) and laying the guilt on daddy. Now she's gone back to uni and he is alone.

Got home tonight and opened a letter telling me he has redirected his mail. Why not talk to me about this first? Coward or what?

I've seen a mortgage adviser and looked at new houses, but he's doing the 'head in the sand' as usual. Don't know what to do next.

Shall I drop off ( when he's at work) some bags of his stuff I have collected together?

Starting to feel vulnerable and low, after being ok for the last two weeks. I'm sure it's just fear of the unknown.