I need help disengaging
I try to follow what I read here but it doesn't seem to work and sds actions affect me. How do you guys handle things that affect you? Is it effect? I looked it up and I'm not sure which one is right. :O anyways this morning sd didn't take the trash out last night and it was over flowing this morning and making the kitchen smell so bad I was gagging. Dh had cleaned out the fridge of leftovers and it was pretty stanky. Sd had already left for school so I had to drag it to the garage and spray some febreeze to get through my morning. I called dh and told him but his excuse was that the outside trash was full and the trash picks up today so she will empty when she gets home. He always has an excuse for her.