I blogged earlier about DD's bio-dad having told her she could come stay with him and meet her half-sister and how he then told no one, so DD's SM said she wasn't sure if she could save up the money by then or not.

So, from you guys point of view, what is a reasonable expectation of communication. I ask b/c DH just found out his unit will likely be giving a lot of time off during Spring Break, and I'd kinda like to make plans. Do I just hold my breath until the day before? This whole thing is just so rediculous and upsetting. :sick: