So annoyed right now so needed a rant.
Dh said he would no longer be running round all weekend taking kids here there and everywhere like he does. Usually sd10 wants to leave on Saturday and sd12 wants to stay until Sunday. So today he put his foot down (for all of 10 minutes) and says no sd10 I'm not running you home then your sister again tomorrow if you want to come over that's fine but you come for the weekend. Sd10 goes upstairs 10minutes later dh gets a text off bm. Sd10 has been crying on the phone she wants to go home and they just happen to be going out tomorrow so she needs to come home today. Dh shouts up to sd10 to get her stuff ready and not even 30seconds later she's downstairs with all her stuff ready to go. Now I said sd12 should go too that way we're saying we won't be doing it anymore. No sd12 wants to stay so we're not going to make her go. So all in all sd10 got what she wanted bm said jump and he did sd12 also got to do what she wanted and dh is again wasting money and 2 hours of his weekend time taking sd10 back.
While I'm also ranting we agreed kids would be reading every night before bed. I had to remind him to read with sd10 but dyslexic sd12 he wasn't bothered about because she can already read. We will pay £400 for a dyslexia test we will pay £250 for a pen that helps with dyslexia but we won't actually make her do any reading to help her.
We agreed to an electronics limit but not for socialising (because of what the world is like right now) so both have been on the phone all weekend so then they're allowed their electronics. Mine have the same limit and send some texts/emails in all about 10minutes more than their limit.
Im just so annoyed with him. My respect has literally plummeted I even called him a p***y before he left to take sd10 home. I know I shouldn't have done but I'm just so annoyed.