Hey, hey y'all! Pity Party at my house!!!

.....featuring the ever popular game, Pin the Blame on the Step Mom! The game that's so much fun that DH and I played it last night by ourselves!

DH picked SS16 up last evening, thankfully I was upstairs when they got home and by the time I came downstairs, SS was already holed up in his room. Good, gets me out of fake smiling and all that horse shit. So then DH said that Lowe's called and the flooring that we ordered last week was in so he and SS were going to go pick it up. Lovely. So they leave. BS5 and I were playing a game when then left so I didn't really pay much attention to their departure.

When they returned, SS16 was literally in the bathroom downstairs last night for over 45 minutes. I couldn't hear the shower running, so of course I was suspicious of what the hell he was doing. So when I went upstairs to put BS5 to bed, I asked DH what the heck SS was doing in the bathroom? DH said "He's still in there? I thought he was taking a shower?" Whatever, not my messed up monkey. I went down to the basement to put the laundry in the dryer and heard DH come down and ask the freaking weirdo if he was OK. When I came upstairs to bed, DH had to start in.... "So do you want me to just take him home now? I know you don't want him here." Whatever DH, I asked a simple question.

... then out comes the Pin the Blame on the Step Mom game! How fun! Apparently I was just awful because I didn't stop what I was doing when DH and SS left for Lowes and say "Hi SS16! How was school?" Guess it didn't cross my mind since the kid has been done with school for weeks, didn't go to school anyway and probably only has a fraction of the credits he needs to graduate going into his Jr. year.... but oops sorry, DH my bad, I should have asked SS about school, because I know how very important it is to him. I also am to blame for the fact that SS barely said two words to DH the whole time in the car, because I have alienated him. Poor, poor SS16 he hardly sees his father anymore (his choice), his mother is a POS who only cares about herself (not my problem),and Daizy is just a horrible person who dislikes SS for no reason. Poor, poor SS and SD, it's all Daizy's fault that they are not close with DH, no wonder they act like dumb asses blah blah boo frickety hoo. I told DH that my dad left when I was 5, and moved across the country. The number of times I have seen him in the past 40 years, I could count on two hands. I have never thought he was a shitty dad, he and I have a great relationship. AND it didn't make ME a shitty person either. Funny how that worked for me?? Whatever, no point in arguing this bullshit for the 1.2 billionth time.

Hopefully Gangsta Ganja Boy is gone when I get home from work tonight. I have lunch plans, hair appointment and shopping planned for tomorrow, I'll have to figure something out for Friday and birthday party and carnival for BS5 on Saturday.. so shouldn't be home much at all for the next 3 days, which is marvelous because I really don't even want to be around DH anytime soon. I have a major pain in my ass from this stupid Pin the Blame game.

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I'm very disappointed in you.

I'm very disappointed in you. It doesn't sound like you gave the child a proper SM welcome whilst fuelling deep seated psychological illnesses single handedly in to his mind that make him angry, abusive and dirty. At least you are keeping up your wicked SM role by alienating the child and ensuring they are not close to their father. :jawdrop: WTH let me guess you're responsible for world hunger too.

Sally - That's what I was

Sally - That's what I was thinking...wanking }:)

Ugh, when I was sitting on

Ugh, when I was sitting on the couch I could hear him hacking loogies... you know that gross sound people make when they hack up phlegm and I wanted to vomit.... now I REALLY want to vomit at the thought of him wanking off in my bathroom! :O

I agree with the above. You

I agree with the above. You should have been throwing roses at his feet like the movie Coming to America.

Yes! And when the little

Yes! And when the little monster tells you to hop on one leg and bark like a dog, that had better be the most convincing WUFF! of your life, you evil step monster, you!

My SS spends goes for the 45

My SS spends goes for the 45 minutes bathroom breaks multiple times a day. IDK why he can't just use his bedroom.

I made a point to speak to SS15 cheerfully and politely when he came for visits, even if DSO wasn't around. I think the last time I did it was on a drop off. I said see ya later and SS ignore me as always. DSO, in a meek voice, said didn't you hear her? Little punk just said I love you Dad. Now I don't feel guilty for ignoring him.

Forgot a pity party, you need

Forgot a pity party, you need a STFU party. Go treat yourself to something, a mani/pedi, massage, whatever. You deserve it for that nonsense.

If he's there when I get

If he's there when I get home, I'm going to do just this!

Oh hey SS! So are you glad school's over? How did you do? How many credits do you have? So what do you think you want to do when you're done with school? Play any sports this year?

Of course I already know the answers to all these questions, but it will be fun to put him on the spot and make his look like the loser that he is.... }:)