Yeah, done doing Laundry
The rule has been laundry in your laundry basket and I'll do it (I like doing laundry, hate vacuuming so DP and I struck a deal) - this includes DP.
SD9 has been great about it from the start.
SD11 was good until about a month ago.
Last week, there were three socks a pair of underwear and one pair of leggings after a stay of 5 days with us - the rest of it all over her floor. Room getting messier.
Last night, I gathered SD9 laundry as usual. No issues.
Opended the door to SD11 bedroom and stood there a minute, backed out and re-shut the door.
Told DP when he got home that I will not be assisting SD11 with laundry retrieval any longer, I refuse to go into her room because it's such a mess and I don't want to see that or I am GOING to FREAK OUT. She must bring it herself to the laundry room (put it in the proper place) or do it herself (she needs about 1 or two more lessons in this trust me, apparently it IS rocket science). Done.
He said OK. Yeah, so that means he won't tell her what I'm doing, nor will he make her clean her room.
But GREAT! I'm DONE with that one!