What to do what to do??
So...BM (who has supervised visitation at family court for the last 5 years) has been texting SS - 15 and SD - 11. Since SS & SD recently got cell phones and are a little new to texting it hasn't been a problem as of yet. SS was feeling under the weather with a cold that we all came down with & had been resting for a couple days already, so I asked my SS & SD to split cleaning the bathroom (make it easier on them to share the chore). I mean the bathroom is not very big at all & I feel like if you aren't dying- then you can manage functioning for a few minutes a day (I'm not a slave driver). SS texts BM that he will be right back he has to clean the bathroom and so BM texts SD and asks her to clean it for her brother he's too sick to do anything and that she "cannot believe that we would do such a thing as to ask him to clean the bathroom when he was sick". I mean seriously! He has a cold! It's not the flu, it's not strep, he wasn't dying, and I have been fully functioning as "Mom" for over 5 years. I need some advice about electronic communication & supervised visitation before I lose my cool, because this is not actually the most recent crazy thing she might have done.
I mean the whole situation is way more complex but....
Why should she get to text them when she has supervised visitations??????