Greetings and good morning from the West Coast of Clarity.
Husband new job update: Husbands stress over job was unfounded, and things are greatly improved. He will be making REALLY great money, and in a few months probationary period will be getting vacation, and accrued time off, and all the other benefits are present such as medical and life insurance, deferred retirement matching, etc. Hes getting a feel for the new mechanical workings and is really impressed with the new company. The previous business was pretty rinky dink in comparison. The new place is very clean (dedicated cleaning person), and lets face it Mercedes are a lot nicer than BMW's. He said "the clientel are way different". Things are organized.
His mind is being expanded.
SD16 PowerSulk Update: Shes back with us for the week. Staying in her room, not doing much. Ive let go of all that Netflix cripe, weve got a "superbloom" going on and that just seems way more important. Ill deal with things as they come along. 5$ monthly savings isnt going to make a difference in my life and for the most part she remains polite and civil and respectful. Her sulking doesnt affect me, as I am chill, so her issues dont affect me. Her schooling, well I clipped and sent and didnt look. When Husband commented "not too bad" I just texted back "oh ok, I didnt look I just sent". Took everyones advice, just clipped and sent, because he refuses to do it himself.
And if she fails I need proof he knew. I couldnt even tell you how the grades and attendance are going, Ive got too much going on in my own world.
Clove update: Working on health related activities. Strengthening my bonds with friends and family. Taking it day by day, struggling with my sugar addiction, the fatigue, and struggling with building workout habits, food habits, non-drinking habits (raising a glass of flavored sparkling water), building new alliances. Building new boundaries, healthy boundaries with Husband. Things have improved there. Oddly he doesnt recall saying half the things I tell him he has said to me. He is working on his own drinking habits, and barnical buddy hasnt been around as much.
Everything is shifting and changing, even at work, which is busy because I am in agriculture. But I will be taking the day off tomorrow (whoo hoo!).