12 year old wearing a thong big deal?
SD12 was playing with the dog. She bent over and I saw everything. I asked her to go put some panties on not later now. She said she was wearing panties. I thought she was trying to be smart at first. I told her once more to put on panties. She said she was their just thongs. I told her to go put on some panties that cover everything and some shorts over those. I told DH he went and looked through her drawer and found a couple of pairs and threw them all away and informed her she is to young for those. BM got all pissy when SD told her and called us saying DH owes her for throwing away clothes she bought. She thinks its no big deal and they just help with pantie lines.
I know there might be different opinions but I don't think a 12 year old needs to be wearing thongs. BM doesn't think SD is old enough for a bra she needs but she can wear thongs? That doesn't make any since. To DH its a big deal and she wont be wearing those when she's over here. He will be checking her bags. I know underwear might not seem like a big thing deal but it is an issue.