BM in my kitchen. F outta here!
SD12 has a key to the house because sometimes DH has to meet with clients and isn't home when the girls get off the bus. I don't get home until 45 minutes after so we gave SD a spare key.
Yesterday she called BM to get her from school because she was having severe cramps. It's DH's time so BM decided to drop her off at our house because DH was at the store and said he would be home soon. Well she decided to stop in and help herself to my food. I guess she thought she could grab something real quick and leave without us knowing. DH came home found her going through our fridge and asked her to leave. Are you freaking kidding me! He said she was just like whatever and left. Just handed him some pain pills for SD and left like nothing.
I'm mad he didn't lay into her and SD how freaking rude and disrespectful that was. Instead he got upset with me. I got home and he whined to me about how mad he was at BM. I went and told SD not to EVER let anyone into this house! DH starts bitching at me to calm down. Its not that serious and it wont happen again.
It is that serious. I wanted to call BM and giver her a nice big piece of my mind. But DH didn't want to start any problems. SO you can bitch at me about how mad you are but you can't tell BM how you feel. Man grow some balls.
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burn the mother f%$^&er
burn the mother f%$^&er down!
Sounds like DH's issue was
Sounds like DH's issue was you getting on SD about something that she really may not have had any control over. I understand your frustration at DH for possibly not laying into BM more but you weren't there so you really don't know what he said. He did get her out of there and was upset apparently.
These women feel they are
These women feel they are entitled to come in just because their kids are there.... Sorry BM you are not welcome in my home. I don't even want you on the porch. Stay in your damn car.
That's awesome!! But there is
That's awesome!! But there is no way that BM would drive for each exchange.
Wow. I threw a fit when BM
Wow. I threw a fit when BM came up to the porch and stood at the door the first time she picked the kids up. She held onto the screen door as DH was trying to push it shut. She was gushing--thank you for the check, thank you. I think she was trying to make the kids think he was slamming the door in her face while she was just being polite. He was. And she was far from polite.
That was when we had the talk about keys. The kids would never have one. They would never be alone in our home. Also, bm had to stay in her car. She didn't like that so now DH does all the pick ups and drop offs.
I can't imagine what I would have done if she ever set foot in my home.
exBM used to try to come in
exBM used to try to come in all the time. "can I use your bathroom?" "can I come in and get a glass of water,I'm parched!" "can I come in and see SD's room?"
uh.no.
It's just nosy bullsh*t plain and simple.I like the idea of sending her a matter of fact email about how unwanted her presence is in your home.And honey,you need to burn some sage or something to cast out her nasty energy;)
Were you here when one of the
Were you here when one of the members came home to find BM doing laundry in her home?
BM had also tried on her clothing, eaten her food, etc.
BM went to jail.
Your DH needs to take away SD's key or at least make it VERY CLEAR that she is NEVER, EVER to let her mother in the house again.