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cloud_3's picture

It's just so back and forth. One day SO is ready to get help for SS from the SSs grandmother. The next day she thinks she can just do it on her own. Either way, nothing I say or do matters. I'm back to feeling just exhausted by it all today. I started getting mental health services just a little over a decade ago, and my SO just feels like everything I say is just criticizing her, or being a know it all and it's like... I mean I know a thing or two.... I say nothing, nothing changes, and I say something, nothing changes. Which... fine, but then stop crying to me about it. I'm so over it and frustrated today. She doesn't want to change anything, but she wants everything to change... and IM the one that's crazy..... yeah right. 

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Aniki-Moderator's picture

Your bio says that you have been in the relationship a few months. 

You two barely know each other. A few months is a VERY short time. 

Why do you expect her to change things when she can't seem to make up her own mind on how to proceed??

Your health - physical AND mental - is a priority. IMO, your best course of action is to end this relationship and concentrate on healing yourself before you attempt another relationship.