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I wish DH would stop trying to fix things, he's making it worse.

Chmmy's picture

This morning at 7:53am DuH sent me a text saying Have a Good Day with a picture of the sunrise from work. He leaves at 5ish so it's still dark. My first thought was I wonder who else he sent that to and then I remembered I have his ipod with his imessages so I can see. He has a group message with SD18 and SD21 called My Little Angels. I opened that conversation and what do you know, the same picture at 7:10am with his daily morning greeting and the first love you of the day. So 45 minutes later as an afterthought he sends me the same picture. He is so mentally unstable. I responded with "please don't send me things like that. it's hurtful. i'm not special to you so please dont." This cold hearted text led to a series of texts which turned in to me calling him out for being a liar and having lying children and no one calls out anyone on their lies so everyone keeps lying.

We are now permanently sleeping in separate rooms. He slept in my bed last night because he just comes in and lays down and it was 9pm and I didn't want to argue so I let him stay instead of starting a fight but I told him today that I won't have him in my room, it makes me anxious.

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Survivingstephell's picture

Move his stuff into another room and give him no reason. To come back in. Don't ask him to do it, you do it. You can stack it or just toss it in that room , depends on the message you want to send.  BTDT.  Take back control for yourself.  

tog redux's picture

Chmmy, please move out. This relationship is over. Living with your parents or in a studio apartment has to be better than this. 

justmakingthebest's picture

I don't know how you are still there... living as roommates is still too close. This guy will never get it.