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Less than 2 weeks in and SS12 gets the cops called on him

Casper3's picture

Yesterday was a doozy. So I get home first and go to get a load of laundry together. I couldn't find SS12's sleeping shorts either on his bed or in the laundry basket. I look under the bed and there they are. I picked them up and *gross* they're wet. The smell reaking up from them is pee. :sick: I checked his sheets and mattress to see if he had an accident in the night and everything is clean and dry. This means that after I left yesterday morning and before he got dressed he decided to whiz all over his shorts. JOY! This is not an isolated incident. He has been doing this since he was 9 years old. When he gets mad he pees. It doesn't happen in the night while he is sleeping. Always when he is awake. We asked BM if he does it at her place and she said no. That it is in reaction to something we are doing.

So I set the shorts aside to show SS12 and DH when they get home so we can address this behavior but we don't get a chance. As soon as they walk in the door DH hands me a note from daycamp saying that "our son" was with a group of boys that decided to dial 911 from the camp phone as a prank. They all got a private meeting with a police officer explaining that this is wrong and we are encouraged to address this behavior at home.

DH was really mad. I got him calmed down and we talked it all over with SS12. But then I had to show them the shorts (I can't just let it go) and DH told SS12 if he pee's anywhere but in the toilet again at our house he won't be coming back. I have to agree at this point. It is seriously gross to come across that stuff.

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Jbee27's picture

Reminds me of the time I cleaned SS8's room (at that time he was 6) and I found 3 pairs of underwear with dried up $h*t in them.
EEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!

I gagged all day. It was gross!!
Or the time SS8 got out of the pool last summer and sat on his towel and peed all in his swim trunks and all over the towel, didn't tell anybody and then hung the towel and trunks in the bathroom. It REEKED of pee the next day. I was late for work because I was on my hands and knees cleaning the bathroom thinking one of them had missed the toilet. When I realized where the smell was coming from, I was so MAD! It had been hanging next to my towel and it made my towel stink!!

Why are boys so gross???

stepmom2one's picture

Gross I know. My BS2 (3 soon) does this when he is in his room for timeout. Pees on his clothes, his carpet or whatever. Totally gross, I have had him scub his carpet everytime he does this but he just continues.

3 is understandable but 12?? Gosh I hope my son doesn't continue this till then!!