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Hey! Don't forget that *I* have kids, too! I HAVE KIDS! LOOK AT MY KIDS!!!!

bi's picture

My brother and SIL had a baby boy just over a week ago. I went to see him Thursday, and I posted on FB that I got to meet my nephew and I posted a few pictures. I had confided in a few friends that I had no doubt that when VM saw that post, even though she wouldn't say anything, she would be pissed. Because how dare I go see my nephew but not her beautiful blessings from God? How dare I post pictures of him when I've never even taken a picture of her precious angels? How dare I pay attention to any kids but hers? I know she stalks my page, even though she rarely says anything, because of things she and other people have said to me. It's obvious that she checks it daily and if something is interesting enough to her, she tells other people. :?

So not 24 hours after I posted about my nephew and put some pictures up, she texts me a picture of T2C. Then proceeds to text me about her kids. I played along. I am polite to her, always. Not overly so, but enough that I can't be accused of NOT being polite. I know it was no coincidence. She saw those pictures and couldn't stand it. So she made damn good and sure that I saw one of her baby, too. I can easily miss them on FB (especially since she's blocked from my newsfeed Biggrin ), but I can't miss it in a text. I'm not even annoyed. I think I'm way past that with her. Anymore, her antics are just hilarious to me. Especially when I know what she's gonna do before she does it. She's very predictable. And amusing!

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ChokinOnLemonz's picture

She is so predictable! Lol. How dare you acknowledge ANY other baby than her crotch fruit!

Shaman29's picture

You are a horrible person for not fawning over VM's christ child. Bad. Bad. Bad.

Perhaps you could make amends by bringing T2C a gift of Frankincense and Myrrh.

noway70's picture

LMAO!!

Exjuliemccoy's picture

I wonder if VM will ever figure out that you are just her father's wife & that it's not your sole function in life to pander to her?

bi's picture

It seems that she won't. She has always had the attitude that I owe her something since I'm with her dad. She expects far more out of me when it comes to her kids, who are not related to me, than what she does when it comes to my kids, who are her half brothers. Makes no sense.

Exjuliemccoy's picture

Your DH seems really similar to mine, expecting the wife to do all the work associated with maintaing HIS family relationships. I don't do it anymore, especially for adult skids who show zero reciprocity.

bi's picture

hahaha! That is funny because when I told FDH's long time female friend (she's more like family) that T2C was born, she said she shall come bearing gifts of frankincense and myrhh! Biggrin Biggrin Biggrin

Everyone knows VM thinks the world was created and sustained solely for the purpose of her giving birth to God's gifts to the world!