Great. A lot of good that did.
I unfollowed SD22 on fb. She messaged me the other day some stuff about my brother's whore gf who is living in the same apt bldg. she is, and asked if i have a cell. I gave her my number and she texted me. I find it much more convenient to type on a keyboard than to text, so I knew she wanted my number and not just for that particular conversation. And yesterday she showed me why. Yesterday was her ultrasound, the one where she finds out boy or girl. (It will be a girl because SD gets what SD wants). So she texted me all the specifics, the weight, the heart rate, no cleft lip, no down's syndrome, bla bla bla.
Wonderful. This is exactly why I unfollowed her. Being a mother is her ONLY identity. It's as if she wasn't a person before having a child, and I do wonder what she is going to do with herself when her kids are grown. If they have kids right off the bat like she and her brother did, she'll probably immediately throw herself into the grandmother role, because I'm not even kidding when I say she seems to only be able to talk about pregnancy and babies, and it has been this way since she started trying for the first kid. I get sick of hearing "my belly", "pregnancy", "I'm a mommy", "my babies", bla bla bla. A lot of good that did. She's just gonna text me everything to make sure I know since I don't ever comment on her posts, so she knows I may not have seen it.
She said she'll let me know the gender today after the gender reveal party. (People are so fucking narcissistic. Gender reveal party? Really? Am I just old and out of today's ways? I think a baby shower is enough. For kids beyond the first, why not just tell people? That's what I did. I didn't think I needed a whole damn party over it. SMH). Yipee! I can't wait to hear about how it's a girl and she's gonna do this and that and dress her in this and that and her little princess bla bla bla.
FML. Why did she have to ask for my damn number?