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Someone should tell my SO that I don't care!!

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Submitted by baseballgirly on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 6:35pm

SO took his 2 boys camping and he keeps texting me play by plays of what they're doing!! I could care less about what his two super-dependant slobs are doing!! Then he texts that his younger one (9) kicked him in the face while they were sleeping! WHY ARE THEY SHARING AN AIR MATTRESS?!?!?!? We have 5!!! I know I'm not a parent... but it grosses me out when they share beds!! And it bothers me that MY spot on MY mattress goes to a bed wetting, snot nosed 9 year old. Ugh. This is the exact reason we don't buy a trailer. Exactly.

I mentioned in an earlier blog that SO packed my ball gloves for his kids to use while camping... he noticed I took it out and came up with a lame excuse!! Said the shed was leaking on the shelf it was on.... so he packed it with his camping stuff instead of moving it to a different shelf???? I can already hear him with his go-to excuse... "I didn't even think about it..." He just does stuff all the time "without thinking about it"!! It's a lame excuse.... it's not a good excuse and frankly, I'm super sick of hearing it!! Quit doing dumb stuff SO!! I've got one foot out the damn door every single day and I think he's testing me as to when I will finally say enough!!!

Son of a gun I'm in a bad situation.

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Submitted by dontcallmestepmom on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 6:52pm

Yuck. I would never sleep on that mattress now. And I don't like his lame excuse, either.

Good for you for not getting a trailer. You would have probably had a meltdown if you went with them in a trailer somewhere.

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Submitted by sammmx on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 7:59pm

Well it could be worse. You could be camping with them. BF guilted me Into going camping w him and his 3 sons last
Month... SS2 had to sleep w us and his diaper exploded on our bed while we slept. Ugh.

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Submitted by baseballgirly on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 9:05pm

I did go camping with them 2 separate weeks last summer. That's why I'm home this year. Both boys wet their beds last summer (8 and 10 years old) and SO didn't bring any spare sheets for them.. They never left our campsite even though the playground was right in front of it. They whined sooo much if it rained.... they were constantly asking to eat something. I was sick of it all on day two. So this year I stayed home.

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Submitted by baseballgirly on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 10:11pm

I'm so glad you guys think it's creepy too!! I haven't said anything to SO, but it bothers me because it's creepy! He's supposed to sleep with me and when I'm not there... alone! Not with either of his sons! They are too old for that. I'm not saying they are cuddling or not... I don't know and don't want to know!! They should have separate beds. period. My text back to him said "you didn't bring separate air mattressess?? weird."

Maybe he missed it? When I came into the picture the younger kid was 6 and still sleeping with dad when he slept there EOW and still with his mommy at home. I obviously put a quick stop to that because I thought it was even gross then! Now I don't know what to think... I'm just upset he is sharing my air mattress with that disgusting kid. Not sure how my next camping trip will go when I go out to buy my own air mattress!! I'm sure as hell not using that last one now!!

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Submitted by baseballgirly on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 10:14pm

Oh yeah... I should probably mention that the kid probably wanted to sleep with him. He is soooo coddled and incompetent of doing anything on his own. When I was still dating SO before we moved in together his kids came for a sleep over. I didn't have a spare bed, so I made up a couch for each of them and sure enough early in the morning the younger one snuck in and asked to sleep in our bed. Without waking SO up to tell him, I told him "No, go back to your bed" and he did and it was fine. I just don't get parents that do whatever their kids says. Your bed should not be shared with a young child!!!!! End of story.

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Submitted by feelinglost on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 11:52pm

I don't know why it is gross or disgusting if they share the same mattress? Am I missing something here?

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Tue, 07/17/2012 - 12:03am

I agree with this... especially since it was camping. Were they sleeping in a tent?

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Submitted by baseballgirly on Tue, 07/17/2012 - 9:56am

You two must be Bio Moms too.

I'm not a Bio Mom. All I know is how grossed out I am by these two boys I couldn't imagine ever sharing a bed with them. The love of a parent is different.

Yes, they are camping in a tent. A big tent that is big enough for 3 mattresses.

I'm also bothered that he's sharing a bed with the babied/coddled boy. Not the independant/responsible one.