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Aniki-Moderator's picture

A friend of mine proposed to his girlfriend over the weekend. The day he proposed is the anniversary of their first kiss. Air kiss What a romantic gesture! And a man who remembers days/dates!! LOL

Do you have any special first kiss memories? I have three.

1) Kindergarten - Our class made Memory Booklets to take home to our parents. The booklets contained our name and age (we wrote them), our picture, our hand/footprints, and lip prints. IOW, the teacher put (shared - gasp) lipstick on each of us so we could put a lip print on the page. I distinctly remember Ronnie L. chasing me around the room and corning me by the building blocks to plant a big ol' smooch on me.

2) 8th grade - My boyfriend kissed me when we were stopped at the top of the ferris wheel. Two brace-faces and we did NOT get stuck together!

3) Almost 8 years ago - I invited DH to my sister's and my Halloween party. I was the world's WORST co-hostess because I was glued to DH's side the entire night (except for bathroom breaks). We were standing in the kitchen, talking and laughing, with Attraction Gravity pulling us closer and closer. He stopped mid-sentence, gently tipped up my chin, and kissed me. Sigh...

 

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momjeans's picture

My first kiss was in 1st grade. I was chased by a few boys on recess, and the chasing went out onto the field. I eventually tripped and fell. One of them leaned down and laid one on me. Yuck. Not cool. 

My next kiss came around 2nd or 3rd grade. It was the son of my after school sitter. We were the same age, best friends, and inseparable. I distinctly remember we were listening to Captain & Tennille in his bedroom and he laid one on me. It took me by surprise, because HEY, YOU’RE MY BEST FRIEND.

After that, it was my first real boyfriend in 7th grade. He was adorable. A total Ralph Macchio (Karate Kid) doppelgänger. He laid one on me outside, after a school dance. He came out in high school. That took me by surprise. 

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Momjeans, in hindsight, that Kindergarten kiss was sweet, But at the time? COOTIES!!!

queensway's picture

My very first kiss was with the boy down the street when I was in 8th grade. Oh I thought he was to cute!

Aniki you really got me thinking about him. So I typed in his name and up came his obituary. Picture and all. Wow how weird to see that. He died just a few years ago at the age of 52.

DaizyDuke's picture

My first kiss was in 7th grade.  It was the COOL thing back then to kiss your "boyfriend" on the outside wall of the school where all the busses sat waiting to pick up the kids from school, so that ALLL your friends could see you.  UGH... middle school was soooooo DUMB!!  My first kiss and I were never really boyfriend and girflriend... we were just always really good friends, I think we only kissed once or twice and I decided it was dumb.  We're still friends to this day and he is actually an actor (been in Men In Black, The Good Wife, Law and Order and a bunch of other stuff) and lives in NYC and is a GREAT guy!

notsobad's picture

There’s a country song by Kane Brown called What if. I love it.

One of the lines is “what if it’s our last first kiss?” DH and I laugh about how if we’d known it was going to our last first kiss we would have made it more romantic. Ours was a quick peck on the first date. I wanted to lay one on him but I didn’t want to scare him off, lol.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Ha, I'm so glad DH laid one on me. I didn't want to seem forward, but I was dying for him to kiss me. Thank goodness he followed up a few minutes later with a hot, steamy, weaken-my-knees kiss!

blayze's picture

My first boyfriend was Jason...we were together from the end of third grade through the beginning of 5th grade.  We shared our first kiss under a tree in front of the school.  All of our friends were around and I can remember my cheeks being flushed and my lips stinging from the shock of it all.  

New Kids on the Block was a thing at the time, and just like the song:

1st kiss was a sweet kiss.

2nd kiss had a twist.

3rd and the 4th kiss --- unfortunately I freakin' missed them because a hottie named Damon stole my heart away from Jason!  And he sucked at kissing. lol 

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Blayze, I was SO thankful that my first boyfriend kiss was out of sight on top of that ferris wheel because we were both beet red! LOL

BTW, do you ever wonder if hotties figure they do not need to kiss well because they're hot??

blayze's picture

I taught a hot guy how to kiss when we were in our 20’s. Hope his wife appreciates it! Haha

Cooooookies's picture

First kiss with my first boyfriend was corny romantic.  We were sitting by a lake, cuddling, starry eyed and all the rest.  It was a really good kiss.

First kiss with DH was long awaited as we "dated" long distance.  It was well over a year before we met in person.  It was a bit of a shy ride from the airport back to his villa.  Then he kissed me...and more.  It was toe curling and wonderful.  DH teases me to this day as when he touched me, I groaned "oh my god".  It just escaped from my lips before I knew what I was saying.  The exH never wanted adult time with me and it had been a long time since I had been touched like someone really wanted me.

Ahhhh such great memories.

ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

We did long distance for a long time too... Though not a year! My first kiss with my DHwas when I picked him up from the airport his first visit out here. He walked directly over and laid it on me. I was too surprised to kiss back! LMAO But then I was hooked!!! Kisses all day!!!

zerostepdrama's picture

First kiss- Kindergarten, neighbor boy in his shed. Just a peck. He went on to marry my best friend and I was the maid of honor in their wedding Smile

First "real" kiss- 7th grade. Boy from school- we both liked each other. He was way more advanced then me. I remember when we kissed- just a quick kiss on the lips- it felt so weird, like out of body experience. It was at a friend's house and basically everyone was waiting on us to kiss. LOL.

First kiss with DH was some pecks at the bar where we were both drunk our first time really hanging out, that I hardly remember but that night he came home with me and propped me up on my kitchen counter and we started really kissing and it was really nice. I still get goosebumps thinking about it.

One kiss I do remember in a bad way was a guy that I worked with who I really liked and we kissed in his car after hanging out at the bar after work and he was so sloppy and it was so gross. We did end up dating for a few months afterwards and I REALLY liked him and he did get better. But dang that first kiss was BLAH.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Zero, I'm reminded of a guy I STOPPED dating because I could not get past his ickle kissing style. He simply refused to take any kind of suggestion that it was GROSS to cover my entire mouth - his mouth AROUND my lips - and suck/slobber like a novocain-mouth-numbed, thirst-crazed...THING. ~shudder~

notsobad's picture

I dated a guy like that too. It was horrible, but he was a really nice, thoughtful, generous guy. So I tried to make it work.

I tried just giving pecks and outright telling him how I liked to be kissed. Problem was he thought he was a great kisser! He actually told me it was called swapping spit for a reason! 

I didn’t date him for long.

witch.hazel's picture

My first kiss was at 12 with a 17 year old....which really PO'd my dad, who was a teacher and told the kid to stay away from me, and then I was embarrassed and crossed the street whenever I saw him.

Now we are in our 40's so that age difference doesn't matter at all, and I still have the biggest crush on him. But, he's happily married, so I missed that boat!