So the saying goes I wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy
But if BM was your worst enemy would you?
In the 14 years that DH has been diVorced- BM has had several BF, one live in and a marriage that lasted a total (including dating) of about 18 months. She was blessd with two stepkids and her DD and SD did their best and destroyed the marriage- I'm sure there were other issues but I know that those two were a handfull.
Now 2 yrs after her divorce BM is dating someone with a toddler.
I'm trying hard not to wish ill - like for them to get married- for this little guys BM to be horrible, for this little boy to hate her for things his BM says.
I think what I keep thinking is for what comes around goes around. Would like that to happen.
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BM has been with a guy for 2
BM has been with a guy for 2 years, and he doesn't have any kids. Sometimes I wish she could go through the suffering, but at the end of the day, I'm thankful that they don't have influence over any more children than hers. Total shitbags.
Our BM married a guy without
Our BM married a guy without kids, and they'll never have any either. So I scoff when she makes comments about her sons' stepmother (ME). I told my DH one time she'd never make it for a minute being a stepmom. The moment the spotlight was off of her, or she was asked to put up and shut up, or sacrifice one thin dime for anyone other than herself, she'd wash her hands of the situation for sure.
I don't even want to KNOW how many relationships she may have burned thru looking for just the right SINK (single income, no kids) sort of guy.
Although sometimes I wish she would have been blessed with kids along the same sort as her spawn, I then think about the facr that she'd certainly be divorced (again) and I'd hate to think what she'd be like in our lives if she didn't have a husband as level-headed as her current one is.